Wednesday, June 20, 2012

Relatively Wordless Wednesday: Rock the Dress

You're doing WHAT??

What if you have a daughter who wants to wear your dress someday?

But that dress was so expensive. You're going to ruin it.

What about donating it? Think about all of those brides who would LOVE to have that dress on their wedding day. You're being selfish. 

And on and on it went....comment after unsolicited comment on how appalling it was to do a Trash the Dress session. And to be fair, I wasn't trashing it. But I was absolutely going to rock it...5 years and 1 month after I said "I do" in it. There wasn't going to be any paint or ocean water or fire. It was just going to be me and my dress and some boots and some amazing jewelry, perched on a train and lying in the creek and sprawled across a bridge. What could go wrong?

At the day's end, I climbed into the shower, still wearing my dress, and started scrubbing with a brush and some soap. Thirty minutes later, I had a clean dress and a cold shower. It is not ruined. It can be worn again, but I'm not going to have a daughter who will want it. It can be donated. It was expensive but it was purchased for one wedding and worn for another, so really it has almost seen 2 weddings. We got our money's worth. And I have these beautiful images to celebrate the happiest day of my life up to this point. Time to cross #13 off the 101 list.

MANY thanks to Abby of Abby Leigh Photography for this afternoon of posing, laughter, and just general fun (and if you're in the central KY area, be sure to look her up!) She sent me a disc of over 100 images and it was so hard to pick to just a few to share with you, but the entire disc is one that I'll treasure forever. If you're tempted to break out the wedding dress (whether you last wore it a month ago or 10 years ago) and do this, I highly recommend it. You will not ruin it, you can always wash it. Unless you set yourself on fire. And then all bets are off.


  1. I think the last one is my favorite...possibly..or the one in the crick...or...I can't decide. I love them all. :)

  2. You look gorgeous, as always

  3. You look gorgeous, as always

  4. I think this is great. I sort of want to climb in the shower with my dress now and scrub it since it's so FILTHY from the wedding. I think my favorites are the ones of you with Neal's gear on. All of them are beautiful!

  5. Sweetie, you look amazing!!!! LOVE all your beautiful shots! Big hugs and I love your face!

  6. What a great idea, and what gorgeous photos!

  7. Lookin' good, Girl! what a fun idea!

  8. OMG, girl... You look FIERCE in these pictures! Seriously. HOT! Love the pic of you giggling with the hat on. Shows off so much of your fun personality.

    I love the idea of a Trash the Dress photo session, especially since, most of the time, you can still salvage it AND get some fun shots, too!

  9. Gorgeous! Now that my girls are (almost) grown, I'm thinking about doing a photo shoot like this. But if I have to get into a dress, well...


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